I also did some writing, but I'm rereading and tweaking as I go, too. I threw down a new storyline (all this talk of Harry Potter's got my brain itching with possibilities) and fleshed it out a touch, too. In about an hour I start work. I hope it's a slow day. If so, I get a little more time to consider my writing.
This weekend a visitor was over twice, mainly helping my hubby run the new electric fence (Highland cattle coming soon). I will preface this next part by saying--I am extremely grateful for his assistance. However, I served him two meals and each time was struck by the differences between my family and my his family.
My family's always big on the idea that you DON'T ask for special treatment. If you sit down to a table and the hostess serves you carrots, you don't make a face and say, "I don't like carrots." You simply take a very tiny helping or see if you can get "skipped" when they're passed. When you have dessert and realize it's very tasty, you DON'T ask to have some to take home to your wife (chances are good that a generous hostess will provide some anyhow, and if so, act surprised and gracious). When you pick up the dessert to take home to your wife, don't ask, "Is there enough for both of us?" and get caught COUNTING the slices of pound cake (a generous hostess will provide for both of you, and if she doesn't--well, buck up, buddy, because you already had one serving yourself ;-). Do NOT bemoan the fact that you can't also take home any ice cream because your drive is too long, instead, smile and say, "I liked what you did with this dessert so much, I'm going to stop by my local market and pick up a pint of ice cream. What flavors might you suggest I look for?"
Perhaps this all sounds like I'm a bit peeved about all this. Well, I am. I may not be the most graceful gal. I may not always get my thank you notes done in time, but I still have certain expectations.
So what things irk you about guests? Do you have a character you've styled based on your pet peeves?
Continually curious (and with dishes to wash...)--
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